Authentic First.
Successful Always.
For 40+ years, I've helped successful men and women break free from the exhaustion of high achievement and reconnect with authentic peace. Not talk therapy alone — nervous system healing through clinical hypnotherapy, trauma-informed care, and guided transformation.
Experience
& Family Therapist
Relational Therapy
About Dr. Jaffe
40 Years. One Commitment.
For over four decades, Dr. Robert Jaffe has worked exclusively with high-functioning professionals, executives, and leaders who are succeeding on the outside and running on empty inside.
The Method
Multi-Dimensional
Relational Therapy
For High-Achieving Men
Understand Your Nervous System.
Before You Change Anything Else.
Most high-achieving men spend years trying to fix the wrong thing. The Diagnostic Suite identifies the exact stress patterns driving your behaviour, so the work that follows is precise, not generic.
Free · 3 Minutes
Nervous System Snapshot
Free
No account required
A rapid 10-question assessment that identifies your dominant stress pattern and gives you an instant personalised report.
- 10 targeted questions
- Instant pattern identification
- Personalised results report
- Takes under 3 minutes
Free · 10 Minutes
48-Question Pattern Snapshot
Free
Detailed report emailed to you
A comprehensive self-assessment that maps your nervous system patterns across eight dimensions and generates a full written report.
- 48 clinically informed questions
- 8-dimension pattern map
- Full written report
- Radar chart visualisation
Want the full clinical assessment? Paid tiers include a private session with Dr. Jaffe and a detailed written report of your exact patterns.
Move from Performance
to Authenticity
Rewire the nervous system patterns driving your stress, avoidance, and exhaustion — so success finally feels like yours.
- Habit to Mastery — 12-week group program
- Authentic Power Integration — 3-day intensive
- Individual therapy & diagnostic assessments
Break the Burnout Cycle.
Reclaim Yourself.
From the stress-alcohol cycle to quiet confidence — a clinically grounded path back to who you actually are.
- From Burnout to Breakthrough — 12-week group
- Calm, Clear & In Control — 3-day self-paced
- Individual therapy with Dr. Jaffe & Dr. Rashidian
A Different Kind of Change
This is not about becoming a better performer. It is about becoming a more authentic person. The results follow naturally.
- High-functioning outside, running on empty inside
- Success that feels hollow or never quite enough
- Using work, wine, or distraction to stay regulated
- Disconnected from yourself and the people you love
- Exhausted from constantly proving your worth
- A calm that holds under pressure, not just in quiet moments
- Genuine presence with the people who matter most
- Real tools to regulate your nervous system
- Reconnected with who you actually are
- Leading from peace rather than pressure
I was skeptical. Therapy, hypnotherapy, journaling — none of it sounded like something I would do. But something shifted. Within weeks I stopped reaching for wine at the end of the day. Within months I felt like myself again for the first time in years.
Dr. Jaffe does not fix you. He helps you understand yourself. That shift, from asking what is wrong with me to understanding how my nervous system actually works, changed everything about how I show up in business and at home.
The group was everything I did not know I needed. I thought I was alone in this. Sitting with other high-achieving women who were living the exact same quiet struggle was half the healing. The tools are powerful, but the community is what made it real.
Multiple Pathways
Same Quality. Choose Your Entry Point.
Every pathway draws on the same 40+ years of clinical expertise and the MDRT method. The difference is format, depth, and pace.
Individual Therapy
$450 per session
Deep, personalised work at your pace. Weekly or flexible scheduling. The most direct path to lasting change.
Transformational Group Programs
$3,000 – $6,000 · 12 weeks
Intensive transformation with peer community and accountability. Live weekly calls, self-hypnosis training, guided journaling.
Couples Therapy
$450 per session
Relational healing for couples ready to go deeper. Address root patterns, not just surface conflict, together.
Wellness Coaching
Flexible pricing
Forward-focused support for stress, transitions, habit change, and emotional resilience. Available worldwide.